Bismillah
The purpose of a Muslim’s life is to attain Allah swt’s
pleasure.
To do this successfully, he has to act on the shariah
completely.
The part of the shariah dealing with external acts of worship
has been classified as fiqh. While the part dealing with internal
states, character and actions is the subject of discussion in
tasawwuf.
In summary, acquisition and rectification of
internal moral states (iklaq e batini) with adherence to external
commands of Shariah is tasawwuf.
These internal moral states
form the basis of worship performed by our body. They
include,
A. Acquisition
of:
Repentance (taubah)
Sincerity
(ikhlas)
Slavehood (abdeyat)
Love of Allah swt
(muhabbat)
Awe (khashoo)
Fear
(khauf)
Hopefulness (raja’)
Humility
(tawaduh)
Thankfulness (shukur)
Patience
(saber)
Reliance (tawakul)
Dependence
(tafweedh)
Acceptance (raz(dh)a)
Abstinence
(zuhud) , etc. and
B. Elimination or
rectification:
Love of the worldly (hubb e dunyah)
Love
of fame (hubb e jah)
Arrogance (kibr)
Showing off
(riya)
Backbiting (ghibah)
Calamities of Tongue: Lying
(kazb), carrying tales (namemah), humiliating others, talking
harshly & rudly, talking unnecessarilry.
Anger (gazab)
Envy
and Hatred (hasad wa bugz wa keana)
Being stingy
(bukhl)
Being spend-thrift (israf)
Greed
(hirs), etc.
These basic concepts should be very clear in
regards to tasawwuf.
Various misconceptions exist regarding
tasawwuf.
It is of utmost importance that these misconceptions must be cleared
upfront.
This mental re-conditioning is necessary otherwise, ages will pass
without success & salvation.
Some of them are:
Becoming aware of future or hidden affairs (khasf e kuni) or
performance of supernatural phenomenon (karamat) is not necessary for
tasawwuf.
- Salvation is not guananteed in hereafter by itself for any one who claims
to be in tasawwuf (one has to strife and follow shariah for
it).
- Success in wordly affairs or increase in one’s income or cure from some
illness or fortelling of future events is not
promised.
- Neither does it entail that by sheikh’s spiritual powers
(tasarrufat) mureed’s condition will improve itself, without his
detemination to strife for good works and abstain from sins. [common
error].
- Nor does it assure that his intelligence & memory may increase for
hifz of Quran or religious
knowledge.
- Nor is there a time limit that such a spiritual state is reached that one
finds pleasure in worship, does not get distrubbing thoughts, cries a lot
(either from love or fear of Allah swt), or reaches a state where he in
unaware of everything else except Allah swt. [This is the most
common error].
- It is not necessary that one sees lights (anwar) etc. or hears voices
during dhikr or shugal (special rememberace
techniques)
- Nor seeing good and spiritual dreams is
necessary.
BUT The real objective of Tasawwuf is
to attain Allah swt’s
pleasure.
As mentioned earlier the purpose of Tasawwuf
is to develop and cultivate the praise worthy(PWMS) and remove the blame
worthy internal moral states(BWMS) (iklaq e
batini).
Why is this important?
Isn’t practicing
shariah commands itself sufficient?
This is a very intelligent question and if one
understands the answer he will not have any doubts regarding the necessity of
Tasawwuf.
Try to understand this by means of an
example;
Shariah commands that each and every
Muslim should pray five times daily on appropriate time, with the method
according to Sunnah.
A Muslim, who is unaware of the importance of
rectifying the internal moral states and has not worked to develop and refine
them in his every day life, may fall into following
traps;
- Some times he may skip the prayer all together, maybe out of laziness or
being busy in worldly affairs. This is reflective that he does not have the love
of Allah swt (PWMS) and instead has love of this world (hubb e
dunya)(BWMS).
- Sometimes he prays to show his fellow Muslims that he is regular in his
prayer or a pious person. At other times he thinks that his praying will make
him outstand in his community. These are showing off (riya) (BWMS) and
mark the absence of sincerity(ikhlas) (PWMS)
.
- Even if he prays, he does so hastily, without the proper demeanor. This
is reflective of absence of love of Allah swt (PWMS) and occupation in
worldly affairs (BWMS) .
- Sometimes the demeanor of his prayer changes if he notices that someone
is watching him. This is show off (riya)(BWMS) .
- And when he prays on time and in proper manner, his inner self is absent
from that prayer. He is busy thinking about some worldly affair. This is
reflective of absence of khashoo (awe/internal quiteness)
(PWMS).
- At other times he demeanor does not reflect humility before his Lord.
This is arrogance (kibir)(BWMS).
- Sometimes when he prays he feels he is superior to the other fellow
mussalis. This is self praise (ujub)(BWMS)
.
- At other times he is thinking of his own superiority plus the inferiority
of others which is arrogance (kibr)(BWMS).
- At times when he see someone better than himself, he thinks that he
himself was more deserving of this better trait and whishes that this may go
away from that person. This is envy (hasad) (BWMS)
.
- During his prayer he can not comtemplate that he is standing before his
Lord and He is watching him. This is absence of slavehood (ihsan &
uboodiyah).
- After praying he may boast to others that he prayed or feel superior to
them. This is a arogance (kibr)(BWMS) .
- Or he may feel dejected by the poor concenteration he had during salah
and become disappointed. This is disappointment (yaas)(BWMS)
.
This is just a quick list of
deficiencies.
We should take a moment and think, where do we
stand?
If we do not have these qualities, then is our
worship up to the mark of being accepted by Shariah’s
standards?
Indeed, these internal moral states are the very
soul of bodily or physical form of worship making it capable of being accepted
and rewarded.
Two units of an A’rif (a Muslim who has
realized and mastered these internal moral states) is better than 100,000 units
of an ordinary Muslim.
wa ma taufiqi
ilabillah
Having acknowledged the significance of Tasawwuf
in Islam, the endeavor is to practice and live it in our every day
life.
At this stage two things are
essential;
A. Repentance
(taubah)
B. Need of the sheikh/guide/spiritual
mentor.
A.
Repentance:
It has 2 components;
1. General
Repentance:
Here the individual acknowleges all his past sins,
mistakes & shortcomings and repents. He leaves these transgressions all
together, feels ashamed of disobeying his Lord and makes a solemn determination
of not committing them ever again.
2. Comprehensive
Repentance:
In here he takes
account of his life in details.
If he has missed any salah, fasts, zakah or
hajj, he starts remaking them.
If he has financial dues pending, loans,
material or money he was not legally entitled to recieve, he repays them. Or
acknowleges his mistake and ask forgiveness from the concerned authority.
If
he had hurt others by his speech or actions he ask their
forgiveness.
This repentance is very, very essential to gain
Allah swt’s pleasure and acceptance.
If it is not completed
thoroughly all other future efforts are wasted.
One needs the determination for
this repentance.
It requires having the resolution to bear all the
difficulties (physical or financial) or worldly loss or public disregard that
may come in doing so. If he does not have this determination it is evident that
he is not looking for Allah swt’s pleasure. Hence, he is not a genuine
Seeker.
Allahuma hafizna (we seek Allah swt’s refuge from
this).
A person starting on the path of Tasawwuf
is like ill person seeking treatment.
His spirit is afflicted with the diseases of blame
worthy internal moral states and is deficient of the healthy praise worthy moral
traits.
This requires the services of a qualified
physician. A physician who can diagnose, treat and follow the course of these
spiritual illnesses/deficiencies to prevent relapse and ensure perfect
health.
This spiritual physician is the SHEIKH.
He can be called a pir, mentor or spiritual advisor.
He is indispensable.
There is agreement between all the various schools
of tasawwuf regarding this reality.
P.S. No sick person who takes his illness
seriously will ever dare to treat himself, especially by just reading
books.
How does one find a
Sheikh?
Islam is the religion of Allah
swt till the end of time. Means and methods of keeping this religion till
that time will always persist.
The changes in our socioeconomic & moral
conditions, perception of piety and the influence of the worldly environment may
make recognition of a true sheikh difficult. But he is here.
You just have to look for him. And most importantly ask Allah swt’s
guidance in this feat.
Scholars have described certain
characteristics to look for, in facilitating this search. They
are:
1. He should possess the
necessary knowledge of the religion (fiqh).
2. His believes (aqaid)
must be that of Ahle Sunnah & the demeanor of his actions and habits must be
reflective of Sunnah.
3. He must be God-fearing
(muttaqi), conscientious and pious in following shariah in his every
day life. It is essential that he abstains from all major sins (kabair)
and does not persist on any minor sin
(saghair).
4. He must have traversed the
path of tasawwuf under the guidance of a sheikh himself and have
received explicit permission (verbal or written) to teach and treat
others.
5. He must be attached to an
authentic Silsilah (chain of authority). Their lineage tracing back to
Holy Prophet sallalaho alehey wa alehey wasalam without gaps and
omissions.
6. The contemporary scholars and
unprejudiced sheikhs should hold a good opinion about him and encourage
people to benefit from him.
7. The effect of his
companionship (suhba) must be a decrease in love of the worldly &
an increase in the Love of Allah swt. This is evident by performing
good deeds, abstaining from sins and preparing for
hereafter.
8. He must be more venerated by
intellectual religious folks than by common lay
public.
9. The majority of his pupils
(mureed) must be following Shariah. Their outward condition
conforms to the demands of the Shariah and their behavior is reflective
of the inward progress of getting rid of blame worthy traits, especially love of
the worldly.
10. He must be sincere in
training his disciples (mureed). Working for their spiritual
improvement & progress. Not leaving them on their own but correcting them in
timely fashion, by words and deeds. Reprimanding them when the need
arises.
11. He must not consider himself
to be perfect and be satisfied with his present state. He must engage in
extra-worship, dhikr, fikr and other devotional practices to keep
progressing.
12. He must not be boastful of
his piety and faultlessness. For making such declaration is a sign of the blame
worthy state: Love of fame and authority.
Following qualities are not
essential to be present in a
Sheikh;
1. Performance of supernatural
acts (karamat).
2. Telling in advance about the
hidden and upcoming matters.
3. Immediate acceptance of all
his prayers (dua).
4. Performing extraordinary
actions by his spiritual powers, for example, mind reading, creating an
overwhelming emotional condition in mureed, etc.
5.
Abandonment of means of earning.
If one keeps looking hard enough, he will,
inshaAllah, finds such a Sheikh with Allah swt’s
guidance and help.
Until then, he must make it a habit to
pray(dua) after each salah:
“O Allah! I want to live by Shariah.
My nafs and satan have overtaken me.
Please, remove these obstacles
and make it easy for me to do so.
Give me the determination & strength for this
and
provide me with a Sheikh who can help me in this
effort.”
Ameen.
The selection of the sheikh is the most
important event in practicing tasawwuf.
Due to this importance some concepts needed
further discussion;
1. Haste in selecting the
sheikh, is a fundamental mistake in
Tasawwuf.
2. The sheikh should be
visited repeatedly both in private and public to assess the above mentioned
characteristics.
3. Taking an oath of allegiance
(ba’yaih/ahd) is not essential to confirm the selection of sheikh
(at this point in time). After the selection informing him, asking his
guidance and following the advice is quite enough. (InshaAllah, we will
discuss the concept of ba’yaih/ahd later in
detail.)
4. It is more beneficial that
even if the sheikh fulfils all of the above mentioned criteria, there
exists a natural mutual congeniality (bahemi munasbet) between the
mureed and sheikh. This can be described as having a intuitive
general acceptance of, and no significant doubts about, the sheikh’s
personality, words and deeds.
5. The facts regarding
accessibility, language/barrier, ethnic background and madhahib(fiqh)
differences should be genuinely considered.
6. It best to avoid the
sheikh who places extraordinary importance to customary rituals, like
mawlid, hawl, dhikr halaqas in comparison to the obligatory
(salah, abstaining from sins and avoiding hurting others, etc).
Considering these rituals to be an essential component of Tasawwuf is
wrong.
7. It is inappropriate to compare
present shuyukh with Sayyedna Junaid or Sayyedna Shibli
rehmatulllah alehey. There is hidden arrogance(kibr) in this.
That is, I am of such a stature that only someone like Sayyedna Junaid
rehmatulllah alehey can be my sheikh. There are
shuyukh present at all times that can take care of individuals like
us.
8. One should be very cautious of
familial sheikhs (customary father-son inheritance of being a sheikh),
customary sajjada nasheins (person in charge of mausoleums/khanqah )
and wandering marabouts/spiritually overwhelmed
(majzoubs).
9. Importance of consultation
with pious elders (istishara) and praying repeatedly for Allah
swt’s guidance (istikhara) can not be over
emphasized.
10. If by mistake, one gets
attached to an unqualified sheikh, it is obligatory to abandon him. Allah
swt’s pleasure is the goal; it can not be attained with this sort of
sheikh. However, proper Islamic adab (etiquette) should be
observed even in this case. A more cautious search should be restarted
again.
Allah swt guide us all.
Ameen!
As mentioned earlier, this is a physician-patient
relationship.
The mureed tells/writes about his
spiritual ailments seeking remedy. He has to be explicit and candid about his
condition. Hiding vital information leads to nowhere and eventually mureed
himself is the looser.
The Sheikh reviews mureed’s
condition, taking into account his spiritual ailments/deficiencies, physical and
working requirements and environment. He then prescribes a treatment plan. There
may be multiple components of this plan.
The mureed has to follow this plan
unconditionally.
If he faces difficulties in doing so he has to inform the
Sheikh. And then follow the next advice.
The doctor may be the best in the whole
world.
His diagnosis may be 100% accurate.
The treatment prescribed and
made available may be the finest.
With all this in place,
if Mr.
Mureed decides not to use it or use it partially, (using his brains)
how
can a cure be imagined, less achieved?
A sincere mureed’s duty is to inform the
Sheikh of his present condition.
That is, he reviews his daily
activities, dealings and intentional thoughts. He analyzes them. He looks for
any blame worthy traits that may be active in his intentions and actions or any
praise worthy states that are deficient. He describes the actual case scenarios
and asks assistance from Sheikh for diagnosis and treatment. He follows
the recommendations of Sheikh and reports back. Adjustment may be made,
treatment fined tuned and tailored accordingly. This process continues for a
considerable period of time till a healthy spiritual state is reached, that is,
achievement of nisbat-e-batini(a sustainable mutual relationship with
Allah swt).
As every patient’s condition is different so is
the treatment plan.
It is this individual attention and instruction
which gives Tasawwuf a unique effectiveness in bringing about a
permanent, durable and wholesome change for a complete Islamic life in
its fullest sense.
This effort of self-reformation appears to be
long, tedious, and exhausting. It seems to require real motivation and
determination.
This is very true in ordinary
situations.
How many of us have felt frustrated by our failed
hard work in following the injunctions of Shariah,
repeatedly?
However, this is not the case for those involved
in Tasawwuf.
Once the Mureed starts the sincere effort
of this self reformation Sheikh instructs and tries to develop love of
Allah swt (mauhabbat/ta’aluq ma’aAllah) in
him.
Love of Allah swt becomes the driving
force in all this seemingly strenuous effort. It makes it easy and
pleasurable.
Following example may make this more
understandable:
Imagine I have to travel from Mycity to Makkah e
mukkarramah. The distance between these two cities is 2000 miles. This is a
long journey. It requires extraordinary effort. May be months of travel. In
addition to this imagine the hostile weather and unfamiliar geography. This will
be certainly true if I travel by foot or on a donkey, horse, camel, car or even
bus. However, if I board a jet airliner, being flown by an expert pilot, I can
traverse this distance in 2-4 hours.
Amazing!
The point of origin and destination remains the same, the distance
between the two cities remains the same, the only thing that has changed is the
transport.
By creating and
nurturing the love of Allah swt, Tasawwuf does the
same.
Just to remind: The goal is the attainment of
Allah swt’s pleasure. Its means (distance) are by rectifying the
external actions and inner moral states, i.e. by following Shariah completely.
Love of Allah swt developed by Tasawwuf adds momentum to
it.
Beware! This love has to be acquired and developed
under the close supervision of the Sheikh. Excess of it is sometimes
equally detrimental as is the lack of it.
Love alone without the guidance of a perfect
Sheikh is like a stray jet which may crash anywhere and lead to
destruction.
While excess of it may cause such an overwhelming
state that the individual looses his corporeal senses and is permanently
adsorbed in spiritual realm ( becomes a majzoub). This will lead to
abandoning of physical worship and neglect of family/dependent rights.
Eventually leading to Allah swt’s displeasure. Allah huma
hafizna.
But True Love, is as Moalana Rumi ra
says;
Az muhabat talakh ha shereen shawad
The love is the elixir, which makes unpalatable things sweet &
tasty
May Allah swt gives us all some tiny
fraction of His true love. Ameen
Ba’yit or Ahed is a solemn pledge. It
hallmarks an agreement between the Sheikh and a spiritual aspirant.
That is, in order to gain Allah swt’s pleasure the aspirant agrees to
receive and obey the guidance and instruction from the Sheikh. And the
Sheikh kindly accepts to direct him
accordingly.
This is the reality of
ba’yit.
Outwardly it takes the form of holding the hand of
the Sheikh, who recites some Quranic verses, hadith
and ask the mureed to repent for all previous sins and make a solemn affirmation
of not committing them ever again. Also he announces that the aspirant is now a
member of xyz Sufi order. Then he instructs him
accordingly.
Indeed, this outwardly form of ba’yit is
filled with barakah. Being a Sunnah (ghair muakkidah)
and the practice of saintly elders it has its own benefits. It is not an
ordinary thing.
However, without the above mentioned reality it is
a form devoid of soul.
History of religions is evident of the fact that
with passage of time and spiritual decline means become goals by themselves and
realities are ignored. Rituals and ceremonies eclipse the real meaning
intended.
Same has happened with Tasawwuf.
Ba’yit has become a ceremony. It is considered to be a goal by itself.
This is not the correct teaching of Tasawwuf. Essential thing is
continuously receiving instructions and acting on them as
guided.
For this reason, in our tariq, ba’yit is deferred initially. The
instruction and guidance starts immediately. However, the ba’yit is as
a principle is delayed till the Sheikh is satisfied that the individual
is sincere to follow the path and is doing so to the best of his ability. And,
moreover, the potential mureed understands and agrees with the methodology of
the Sheikh and himself acknowledges increasing benefit from these
instructions.
This time period may be days or
years.
The best deal is: Try before you
buy.
Once the potential mureed sees himself grow spiritually, the
real importance of ba’yit will become evident to him. However, if such
is not the case, he will be free to try his luck somewhere
else.
Taken from Ashrafiya.com